one day at a time

[Maybell]

You've been remarkable. I don't know how you do it.

Best to you.

[Starsky309]

Ok Train and Starsky (and the rest of you I know I am forgetting) be proud of me....

H just sent a text saying his mom wants to know what the cheapest place to purchase backpacks is right now....
1.) why didn't she just text me???? (she texts me all the time)
2.) it drives me INSANE that she buys/donates school supplies and Christmas gifts THEN asks to borrow $$$$

I ignored H's text and instead replied directly to his mom with the wanted information and left it at that...

This is accomplishing 2 things I am working on.
-Ignoring H unless about kids/absolutely have to
-My 180 of not complaining to H about stupid crap his family does, as normally I would have sent H a text saying "Why do we loan your mom $$$ why can't she realize she has her own bills to pay and stop donating so we don't have to pay her bills?"

Very good!

[Train]

THAT is creating change through ACTIONS, twin! Way to do it!

[twinmom]

And I am sick, ugh!!! Don't have time for this. Throat hurts so bad I want to cry, east ache and my head hurts..... I think I might have to make a trip to the take care clinic :o(

[twinmom]

At the take care clinic and get a text from H asking for roadside assistance # and then asks me to pick him up from work this evening and take him to get the Jeep because it has a flat tire and he is having it towed/fixed while he is at work.......

I want to say f you call OW, but I know I should be nice.
Will most likely end up saying yes. And yes I would do this for a neighbor but H is that neighbor that you can't stand and look forward to maybe seeing a fire sale sign in the front yard..... LOL

[claire7]

You have a newborn at home, and toddler twins, and you are barely out of your post-partum phase.

You are a super-woman, IMO.

I would NEVER ask a neighbor in your position to help me in such a way. Surely there is someone else that can help him!?!! Maybe he can call a cab?

I could be totally wrong, but I would say, "I'm so sorry, I have my hands full this evening" or something like that.

[Ggrass]

Ads twin some cyber lighter fund and zippo!

Here lovie, this will help!
Warms hands by mr tm house fire.
Is he serious tm?
When I read your sick and fluey, I though instantly mastitis.

Sorry but he is a very very bad neighbour in the same class as my h, leave him to cope.
He's a man with man bits, tell him grow a set and be a man.

[claire7]

Oh, and I missed the part about how you are SICK and went to see the doctor!

(Please tell me you didn't help him with his car...)
And I hope you feel better. You seem like a super woman, but I hope you are taking good care of yourself, too...

[twinmom]

Ggrass, the milk is flowing just fine :0) it is just sinus, throat and ears.... and actually sitting up feels better than laying down. Dr said it's viral and nothing they can do. Netti pot and Tylenol.

H's mom was at the house as it was Friday, since I was ignoring his texts he called her and asked her to put me on the phone.... darn, can't avoid that one. He asked me to pick him up at 4 because the tire place closes at 5. I agreed :0( I don't do well being "firm"in front of his family.

Later last night I blew up on H, every now and then I just can't take it and let him have it. I exploded about how he treated my kids while he was living with OW and how he chose her over his own kids a few times. We argued, he said he was wrong/sorry about a few things we argued a little more.... I criticized him for not doing enough around the house now like he used to. In the middle of the argument he walks over and starts kissing me, like grab my head put his tongue down my throat kissing me. I pull back but he keeps going, he carried me into my bed and told me to go to sleep. I guess that's one way to end an argument.

I hope he gets sick now, lol!

[twinmom]

Clair thank you, I am actually feeling worse today but can't sleep/lay down as that hurts my head and makes it even harder to breath through my nose