hey Gineen, the online dating world can be tough, as you already know. You're often dealing with dickheads and people who just don't know how to be upfront...even when you tell them it's ok to say no, they won't and they'll keep dicking you! I've decided to just let this last lady go. She needs to show a little enthusiasm, if she really wants to meet then she can contact me and make some suggestions, I've done my part. Otherwise, i think I'm just wasting my time with her. She's just parking me on the sidelines and I'm a "no parking" guy at the moment lol. In my last dating experience I learned two things, one of which I've already violated. 1-giving second chances never works, they just do it to you again! 2- mixed messages mean NO...no matter what they say. I used to blow up the positives and play down the negatives but you have take both those messages together cuz they ARE the message. Mixed messages means move on. Anyway, this lady hasn't bothered to even respond to my last chatty message and when ladies are really genuinely interested in connecting, they want to respond. She also, in one breath said she was too short on time to meet me but in the next tells me she might just go away on a whim for the entire long weekend 'cuz she wants to . That tells me, when she wants to do something, she does it. So that's enough. I'm moving on. My life right now is stressful enough in many areas without playing the mixed messages game. So, just remember that to get to the rich ore you have to dig through the slag first...and the slag can be dirty lol! Thanks for checking in
