I have noticed with MLCers that if we work we put everything ahead of them and if we stay at home we didn't contribute to the income.
We never ever clean the house right - either obsessive or sluts. And we always feed them the wrong food. My xh tried to blame his illness subsequent to his leaving me (more than two years on) to the diet I fed him. Strange that no-one else got ill.
As for how we are in bed - don't get me started . . . .
I had forgotten all of this stuff, and now it is coming back it is making me really laugh!
They are world class at creating no-win situations. Guilt or what? No idea