Have I any hope.... (Part 3)

[bashy]

Heh Maybell and 25. Had made a decision to not help WAW move again on Sunday or go on trip. I felt at ease with this decision - especially after CS's 'crumbs' comments. Was going to text 'something has come up' and can't help and we'll also rearrange trip.

BUT, I have to make a stand. Once this move and trip is out of the way I will detach like mad. It seemed to work. WAWs question about did I have another woman stems from that - I hadn't answered all calls, had ignored texts etc.

25 - I will not mention OM again. WAW said I can stay overnight on Sunday as I'll be helping her move then taking a van home in the morning which is closer to where I live. As for the trip. I had asked was she taking D anywere when off next week. She said no cus she had no money due to move. I hinted at taking D to zoo and she was receptive and we kinda both said at the same time about taking D.

One thing that bothers me is she is not bringing our marital
Bed to new home. She said it is in poor condition even though I know thats not true. When we argued last week she mentioned respecting me by not having OM in our home or bed. So from all this I believe she is waiting to put a new bed to share with OM. In fact until then she is using an inflatable/blow up one.

Maybell - I believe she isn't going with OM because he has only been introduced to D in an informal way with other people there ie as mummy's friend. It's gonna be hard this trip etc but it's for D - for no one else. I'd rather not go because I find it hard to be around WAW so I will have to take 25s advice - stay strong, be positive and give WAW and D a lovely day!!!

ALSO, 25....could you look at part 2 of my thread towards the end. It would be interesting to have a take on her reply to me after I rang to apologise for texting girls years ago but which she has repeatedly mentioned along with working nights etc.

Thank you both.