How's this:

Julia,

Thank you for reaching out. It shows the extent of your character that you were able to say this after the hell I put you through.

I do have a lot of work to do, and I'm glad to finally be doing it. Your compassion and grace mean more to me than you know.

My birthday has been great. John and I drove a van with 5 Alateens all day today and yesterday to their conference in Oregon.

Such a beautiful drive. So many stars here tonight. smile

All the best,

Me: 39 - W: 35
Together: 2 years, no kids
My Affair: 1.5 years
Affair ended: 4/9/14
Affair revealed: 5/19/14
Last Contact: 8/2/14