Do not put any pressure on her. Ever time you poke her in a personal way if she was greatly effected she will feel your thoughts.
If my h kept at me at the moment, I think I would throw up due to anxiety. I'm in a way needing him to be gone, even tho I did think we could work it out, and i wanted to go back I still have doubts.
It's 8months.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26