Don't feel bad. My W said many crazy things as to way she HAD to leave. As I changed and addressed each one, it got to the point that she had to leave because of the "way you chew your food". She also told me that we could take our time before getting a D, keep insurance together, etc. than went to L and suddenly all that changed. Now she is only concerned about what SHE can get.
The LBS must be careful. No matter how "kitty Kat" they start out, in the end almost all the MLCers end up destroying everyone around them. They just can't seem to help it.