You and I are kind of in similar situations. We both have spouses who have engaged in an A, and both were dark/dim (minus kid stuff) for a couple of months, and we both now find ourselves where our spouses seem to be more engaged with us. Also, we both really have no idea as to the status of OP. Last but not least, we both really do not know how to react to the overtures from our spouses. Do we continue dark/dim, do we reciprocate, is there a happy middle ground? I am going to follow people's replies to you and see if it might apply to my situation.
I really have nothing else to offer as we are pretty much at the same point, and I am really just guessing as to what I should be doing. It is like it feels like my W is opening a door, but I am not sure if it is wide enough to walk through or if she is just peeking out to see where I am.
Best of luck to you...I will keep reading!
Last edited by pilot; 08/02/1405:54 AM.
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16
