Woke up feeling a bit down. H is supposed to have DD this weekend, and was meant to pick her up yesterday. I didn't hear from him and decided not to contact him as a 180. I feel that if he really wants her, I shouldn't have to chase him down on his weekends with her. This happened on his last weekend, except that he asked me to put her at the childminder all weekend on his bill, which I didn't. As such DD hasn't seen H in a month now. Neither have I.


Me 33, H 34
T 15 (on and off, 7 years this stretch)
M 4
DD 3
OW July 2010, IDLY - Oct 2010

1st sep 28/5/11-14/8/11 (my idea)
OW confirmed 25/11/11 (H travelled with OW 26/11/11)
I moved out 3/12/11