Bashy, Mr.Bond and Starsky would both advocate that you come up with a firm strategy for how you handle OM and then make decisions accordingly.

I'm sorry, I forget,.. Has anyone filed for D? What is your status right now? Just separated?

I personally would not take a 200 mi trip with my separated spouse because I personally could not handle that situation well as things have stood between us. If you think you have that kind of stamina, then the next thing to consider is your goal and strategy and how your decision fits with that.

I personally find it interesting your W wants to do that in the current circumstances. How do you read that? Who suggested the trip? Why is she going with you and not OM?

I have a few more questions but we'll start with those.


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.