here it comes. Get the thought out of your head that a R is based on the other person wanting to have sex. I have talked to a number of women who are having the same problem. i really don't understand why people don't want it everyday either, but I'll give you my perspective on it anyway for what its worth.
How was you sex life before, the baby? I bet it was great, it will be like this forever, etc... etc....
what changes happened after the baby was born. Sometimes we just don't realize that LIFE GETS IN THE WAY....
we refuse to see the things that are affecting other person and assume that they are not interested.
What strikes me is that you seem to be in polar reversed M. W wanting sex all the time and H wanting the quality time. I think we can presume that this is the reversal of the normal Mars-Venus deal. So what can you do?
You say he wants to spend quality time with you, I still get the sense that you haven't found his LL, and he hasn't found yours. let me give you something since he is interested on spending quality time with you, why not use that to your advantage.
why not make a proposal to him that you understand that there are some misunderstandings in regards to how you view each other and what each other needs. So why not do this. Say I found this really great book 5LL and would you be interested in spending some time each night reading it with me. I have heard a lot of good things about this book helping people understand each other. maybe we can identify each others LL and then we could understand or R better and make changes that will benefit both of us.
it would give you quality time with him (which he wants) and you both would gain tremendous amount of insight into what turns the other person on. I will update more later, on your post as I am glad you gave me more insight into the past of your R.
Remember: Beauty is not skin deep, it goes completely to the soul, and for that I say you are a most beautiful person. DON'T FORGET THAT. OK
