LisaB. I am so sorry. I know just how terrible this must feel right now.
As bad as this feels I'd urge you to not give up just yet. I'm not naive enough to think that sometimes the wrong thing at the wrong time can't create a butterfly effect that changes the tides, however we can't ever predict how others will respond. It's possible this is a set back, and one that even has unforseen positive consequences down the road.
Can you please give us more information about how this went down? What did you say? What was his response? How did it end?
Only you know when it's right to give up hope, but when you're discouraged and heartbroken and mad at yourself and feeling rejected...that's not always the best state of mind to steer your actions and outlook towards the future.
Please take care of yourself tonight and know you are a special person.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
