Bashy, I appreciate you asking for my input. I think since it's a trip with your D, I'd leave it as planned but really just keep it as a friendly neighbor and stop the comments about the OM. Again, I think the vets can help you better navigate this.
Me 34 M 2.5 (Both 2nd M) My kids-D 17,S 16,S 12 BD 2/14 D final 7/2014