I really tried over time to address those things he had issues with, now who gives a fig what he thinks.

My whole issue was I was expected to be considerate and change to meet his needs, but it did very much seem to be a one way street.

Nothing has changed, apart for the woman he has riding shot gun in passenger seat. He's not even doing different activities.

Some of his stuff appears mlc or seems to be some sort of mental issue on advice of ic.
In fact I realise now although h thinks he's a deep thinker, he's not.

He's fear reactive, he's been trying to re make every one into being depend totally on him. I'm not sure what he gets from the control, power as suggested by ic almost conscious abuse when he's just going to dump and run.

Last edited by Ggrass; 08/02/14 01:03 AM.
M 46 h54
Both married before
T 11y
Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads!
Ms 18 hs 26