I don't love you anymore

[nova]

Well, my head is spinning today. I got offered a new position at work today. The work that I would be doing sounds really interesting, and the job could be a fast track to a managerial type position. But it's in a different state, about 2-3 hrs away from where I live right now. I'd either need to commute on a weekly basis (drive up on Monday, stay in an apartment through Friday and drive back - I don't know what I would do with my cat) or completely pick up and move, leaving my home, and all my attachments here. Not to mention that, even though I know I need live for myself now, I have no idea what effect it might have on the possibility of ever saving my marriage. With everything else that is going on, I was definitley not looking for another potentially life-altering event so soon.