Wife wants marriage with OM, is there any hope?

[25yearsmlc]

Never, ever, in your whole life with kids?

The only time is when I went on business trips or training (rare occasions), with one exception. A few years ago, I went on an overnight trip with my brother and a couple of close friends.

That was it.

My wife has also gone out on business trips which included overnight stays.

So, Who watched the kids when you were out with the whores?

(Oops, I meant "paid escorts", b/c "whore" is what you called your wife for being with a man who treated her with love and kindness...and "paid escorts" is what you called the women who slept with you for money, and to whom you sent love notes and shared fond memories)...

...and to say her affair is worse is b/c it's more important to her than your flings were to you, WOW.

That's really not mature or fair. It's also the exact opposite of how We see this.

IF she really "loves" OM then it makes much MORE sense to me, morally, that she'd have an affair, than someone she PAYS to violate marriage vows with, for her purely physical SELFISH needs, AND OR her fragile ego, prideful ways...etc. Your point really is that her affair is more of a threat to the marriage b/c it matters to her more than the "escorts" mattered to you. But that just says how pathetically shallow your adultery was, not how bad her A is. I mean,

when I read your comments about how her 1 "true love" affair was worse than your multiple sex partners over the years, well Your double standard literally made me laugh out loud. (Beats yelling I guess).


So you were with those women and your wife watched the kids but now if she expects you to do the same, SHE is "selfish"?

This reminds me of how mosquitoes must feel at nudist's colonies; I don't know where to start!

I'll close for now by saying, You lack empathy, (from what I see here)

and if you think "ground rules" are something YOU get to write and she must obey,

Then I suggest you go back to your IC and talk about Control problems and lack of empathy

b/c they are still your biggest issues.