Well, geez, what HAVEN'T I done? Seriously - yoga, meditation, support group (6 new friends, all divorced now), work conference, 2 trips out west, reestablished friendships and family ties, took up a new sport, started running again, counseling weekly, and I have read at least one entire grocery bag of books trying to learn more about myself and how I contributed to this mess. It's a daily struggle, still, and frankly, I'm kind of tired. Some days are perfectly fine, but some, like today, I miss having my best friend to do stuff with. I don't know anyone who likes to do a lot of what I like to do. I'm planning to join a couple of meetups, so that might help. But like I said, sometimes I just don't feel like putting forth the effort. I'm An introvert, so it's even tougher when you don't always want to hang out in groups. Anyway, that's it for now. It's the weekend. No sense in wasting my free time thinking about this. The summer is going by...


Me 53, XH 57
M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids
BD June '13
H moved out July '13
Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14
H filed for D Nov. '14
D March '15