Hey DBers, in case anyone reads this, let me let you know what not to do.

You should follow the DB guidelines. Because guess what? I just showed my ex an emotional, crazy side of me and pushed him further away. I think we were close to possible reconciliation. He was open to spending time together, he was wanting to keep in touch. But I exploded with emotion and scared him away.

Now there is probably no hope. I blew it. So don't do that.

Just my words of wisdom. Have a great day!
Hugs, LisaB

Me: 34 H: 30
M: 4 years
BD: 6/15/14
He moved out 6/30/14
OW1: EA then PA after BD
Now he's dating multiple OWs
I'm over it and moving on.