Just got off the phone with the DB coach. Gameplan going forward:

1. Lay off any and all thoughts about talking to her friends/family in order to provide them "my perspective". If I feel they're getting a twisted, one-sided story from my WAW, then so be it. Any attempts to intervene will backfire.

2. Continue 180s and detachment. Much progress has been made here and I need to simply stay on course and minimize any further setbacks.

3. Do not encourage "family time" with the kids. Let her be the one to bring it up. Do not force it on her in any way.

4. Do not even think about dating other women at this point.

5. Let child custody/relocation situation between OM and OMW run its course. Just sit back and be patient. Best case scenario is that things come crashing down on his side of the fence and the affair ends. Do not try to snoop into their relationship (do not contact OMW) or try to intervene in any way.

M: 15 years
BD: 6/25/14
EA/PA: starts 5/14/14
11/30/14 - A ends
5/15/15 - D is finalized.
11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!