She is going completely nuts on me right now ... throwing everything at me via text .. 20 hateful vicious texts .. told me they got into an accident so I would call .. I call and realize she only did it to get me to call ... I said goodbye and hung up.
I have not replied .. times like this I have little to no hope.
Our progress is not linear, just so you know. You can have very low times, and then things can be better. Seriously, I know what i'm talking about on this. In 2006, i told my sisters I'd give my m a "10% chance of making it", and I meant it. Sometimes you have to expect a divorce to face what it would really be like.
As for this^^ episode of crying wolf, and not calling her back, I don't get it.
I'll need to read what happened earlier to learn why you didn't call her back or text back. Did she have son with her? Why didn't you call or text her back? What were you trying to prove? (I will read your other post I guess to find out)
Before I say anything more or know more, I will say "don't play games for games sake" or to "win". There are no "winners" and "losers" in this. Okay? The only person you are trying to "beat" here, is the old you, not your spouse.
I can't tell if you are working on you to 'spite her' or to please yourself, or to help the m be restored or what.
And I don't know why you are not telling her SOME of your changes so she'd know that the old marriage isn't going to return. which she surely fears.
I can't tell what of her complaints you think you should work on or if you are just on your own path that she is not part of, etc. Which of her complaints, if any, did you find had some validity?
And now I'll just ask you, What is YOUR goal here? And it's okay to have more than one.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
