Quick background for anyone who hasn't read the first thread:

Married 5 1/2 yrs, together 9; son 5, daughter almost 4. My W told me she wanted a divorce on 5/9/14. I wasn't a great husband, let her do too much of the logistical stuff, was overweight to the point where we have almost never slept in the same bed.
Since: I did the beg, plead, reason thing for a couple of weeks, then tried to focus on bettering myself. I have lost 40 lbs (about 2/5 of what I need/want to lose) and this had made the snoring less bad. I hadn't found this site yet, but I had gotten some similar advice. However, without having read any of the fundamentals I stunk at it. This led to my EA during June as I had given up and convinced myself I didn't love my W anymore. Well, this all blew up on the 4th of July and I realized that I do still love my W and can't give up. It has been a rocky road, but I'm not quitting again anytime soon. If you need more information, please read through the old thread.

Me: 34 W:33
T: 10 M: 6
S: 6 D: 5
BD: 5/14
Still together(ish)
Not giving up: 7/14
D talk has slowed, a lot.
Gradually working on things together. Still separate bedrooms.
Slow and Steady wins the race.