Dev,

Catching up after being MIA for a few days and look what happens when one's not looking! smile

You're getting some good advice here. My boundary with Ms. Wonka was no OW at the house...near the house...around the house. I was quite angry and vocal when I laid down this boundary. So she took her rendezvouses elsewhere. sick

Oh my...I do have stories about small, stupid things done by Ms. Wonka during her affair-addled phase.

Well done in not trying to rescue your W. She needs to face the consequences of her choices and knows full well your boundary of not being in an open marriage.

Glad to hear that you will be going away for a while...what a wonderful distraction for you!!!