Really hurting

[Old Dog]

Hi amacin, sorry you're back in the same position. I'm a relative noob, but ...

If you are both familiar with this situation, I'd say sack the counsellor and get one who understands. Did you use DB/DR before? Were you both following the rules or just you?

Also, remember that someone in this position is all over the place and doesn't really know what they want or what to think or what colour the sky is.

It's never too late.

Old Dog xx