Shining, like you I was not keen on divorce, but I do wish I had done it sooner, on financial and emotional grounds.
Please re-read Ambivalent's thread again - these guys can rack up bills as if there were no tomorrow.
The sooner it is over the quicker we can at least try to move on with our lives.
As it was my divorce dragged on 2 years, due to my xh's obstructions, even though he was the one who wanted the divorce. MLCers are not like other people>