of going against my faith and my gut, or cutting my losses before they potentially get worse.
That is so tough Shining... that is one thing (of many) my impeding D is relieving me from, her financial irresponsibility affecting the kids lives any more. And from the stories here, you can guess-timate the probability of further disaster based on how/what you know of your H.
Please be very logical and business-minded... The door to reconciliation can be left open if you want it to be, D is just a piece of paper, right? Protect you and the kids.
I got several consultations with different Ls, very interesting since I am not doing an "angry" D, a couple didn't know what to do with that...lol! So I moved on and found 2 that will listen to ME, and how I want to do this D.
And you are doing AMAZING, btw...
Last edited by TSquared2; 08/01/1405:37 PM.
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
