I think that makes quite a bit of sense given that everyone has their own personalities and traits. Problem is, if we understood ourselves well and our spouses well we probably wouldn't be here, so seeking the council and advice of others and kicking things around also is good sense.


Me: 40 W: 40
22 Years together, 14 Married
D8 + D7
Aug 2012 - Separated
Sep / Oct - Back Together
May 2014 - WAW / Divorce Bomb / Separation
Jun/Jul - Suspected Other man / Confirmed
Now - WAW moving out