I think that makes quite a bit of sense given that everyone has their own personalities and traits. Problem is, if we understood ourselves well and our spouses well we probably wouldn't be here, so seeking the council and advice of others and kicking things around also is good sense.
Me: 40 W: 40 22 Years together, 14 Married D8 + D7 Aug 2012 - Separated Sep / Oct - Back Together May 2014 - WAW / Divorce Bomb / Separation Jun/Jul - Suspected Other man / Confirmed Now - WAW moving out