I know as odd as this may sound, I still wrestle with the notion that I could actually HELP someone - you know? There have been a few situations where I have checked in and tried to help because for some reason the prima facia evidence of what the H was possibly getting "wrong" resonated with me (SM34 anyone?). And then there are a lot of situations that are so dissimilar from mine I wouldn't even know where to begin....infidelity and so on. I don't even feel remotely qualified to weigh in on those. Now, if you present me with a well-intentioned husband that was/is living a very clueless, self-absorbed life and thinks everything is just peachy -- all the while his wife is seething, unhappy, and plotting a way out -- yeah, I think I could help there.
