I completely understand that as I was the same with my now 2nd XH. I see now that by not giving myself space for clarity and to work on myself, I kept crawling back for crumbs that my 2nd XH would throw in my direction showing no love or respect for myself. Not attractive at all! In the end it hurt me more. I just want to share my experience that's all.


Me 34
M 2.5 (Both 2nd M)
My kids-D 17,S 16,S 12
BD 2/14
D final 7/2014