Ggrass, at first I let H's comments affect me, too. Chances are a lot if it was hogwash!!!! (I mean, look at their lives right now!!!)

Some issues they had may have been valid- change what you can and come to peace with the rest. Keep your head up!!!

Me: 39
H: 45
Second marriage for both
H left 12/2013
M:4 T:5.5