So H and I have been separated for nearly 3 years. We'd been spending a lot of time together over the last year and half, but not in the last month.
I have been reflecting on everything, and I have realised that while my H has his faults (several of them), the current rift is all my fault as I have pushed him away with my constant criticism and verbal attacks.
I miss my H and I would really like to make things work, so I have come back here with a beginner's mind...
I found a lot of support here previously, and it really helped me when I was on here, so I hope to post here frequently from now.
I can't go into a lot of detail now about everything that happened over the last year, but I guess the picture will become clearer as I post daily.
For now, back to work...
Me 33, H 34 T 15 (on and off, 7 years this stretch) M 4 DD 3 OW July 2010, IDLY - Oct 2010
1st sep 28/5/11-14/8/11 (my idea) OW confirmed 25/11/11 (H travelled with OW 26/11/11) I moved out 3/12/11
