I have to agree with Sandi2. I think it is time you start to bend a little toward your w. It was my first thought when your W wanted to talk a few weeks ago and you mentioned that you didn't offer to reschedule things (if you could have, it might not have been a bad idea). Even though I haven't posted in a while (nursing school was a ton of work!) I occasionally caught up on your posts and I find myself thinking that if I were your W, I would not have the impression you had any interest in R. There were also times when friends were asking if you were dating, how you felt about your W, etc. that I wondered if she was trying to temperature check through them.
It seems to me your W tries to put invitations out there to you frequently and you can't say for sure if they are for her to have family time, or time with you, because you typically decline. Start leaving some room in your schedule to accept some of these invitations when you pick up/drop off the girls.
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I haven’t heard anything from W for nearly two weeks. Some part of me thought/hoped (not expected and therefore no disappointment) that she would text me a short status since she got so pleased with the one I send her during my vacation time with the children….but none so far. Otherwise nothing new – W and sit is still on my mind and I miss the children like HE77!
Next time, send her a text and don't always start off with something about the girls. Maybe just a "Hi, how are you?"
What comes through in your posts is that you are very closed off to your W and any attempt at her reaching out to you. It's time to start changing that a little and see where it takes you!
M 46 H 44 D 12 S 8 M 9 T 11 BD 2/15/13 "Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13 Agree we are 'healing' 7/13 Definitely Piecing 9/13
