hi thanks for caring honestly i worked many issues immediately. seeing a psychologist weekly and it strengthens me. now in a weekly anger management because my lawyer thought it would be a good idea.
i was losing her on friday and saturday to her friends and clubbing. they fed her ideas that being single was better. she also had an emotional affair with a man for two hours a day of phone talk for two years. i think it was not physical. how to know for certain though.? that tortures me? she poured problems to him and said everything fine to me.
she asked for divorce four separate times before filing. now locks changed, she moved away no one knows where. we dont talk at all per her legal order. i have spent more on pfa lawyer than divorce lawyer.
i had depression and job issues. now with properties developed i had money and kept it from her for fear of a coming divorce. she thinks i gambled it away because i went there too often. i banned myself from casinos the week i was served papers. that was a bold step because it was an outlet for my depression/loneliness.
i hired a great personal trainer and lost 12 pounds from diet exercise and high stress. not good for my hair either.
oddly enough this experience has made me review myself strongly and improve things. work harder, socialize more, make new friends.
what do you recommend i do to win my W affections again. we had a perfect love for years and i hardened her heart. now she is consumed with destroying me. chuck said stay dark and improve myself. will our time apart strengthen us or prove that we dont need each other to survive.
everyone tells me the world is large and i can find someone to make me happier without the venom.
i feel a duty to provide her with a great and happy life. she and i would enjoy the simple things.
why would you take your H back
me 33, wife 30 no kids w kicked me out 6/2/14 she filed 6/3/14
