Hey Karen

I'm a cyclist and I have the same scene here. I haven't had a new bike in sixteen years, my H has spent many thousands on bikes and gear in our ten year marriage. I use a bike for transport - take my eight year old around in the child seat, bring home the shopping with it. I don't have a car. My H hasn't had a bike which can even take a rack or child seat for over a year.... it's a performance bike!!!!

Why don't you suggest to your H if he needs a challenge, that he makes sure he has a bike MUCH worse than yours, preferably rusty and bent out of shape... He should find it a challenge keeping up with you on your state of the art machine!! LOL!! Just kidding!!!

Livnlearn

"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates