After our interesting first meeting this week, my H has been being friendly texting and communicating with me quite a bit. I have been staying cool.
Then today I got an email from a mutual female friend that she heard we are D.
H was interested in this woman when we met, but she was dating someone else. Right after that, he and I met and began dating, but there was always a flirtation between them. Eventually we all became good friends, but she and I more so. The flirtation bothered me and I brought it up to him and he denied it and told me I was basically crazy. However, other mutual friends saw it as well and after a long time he finally agreed that it was true that she liked him, but denied he had feelings for her.
Years pass, she and I become closer but he and she don't really stay in close contact. Today I get a message from her that he told her we split up. He is trying to meet up with her. He is telling her we had a friendly break up and that we grew apart and are going in different directions.
This rollercoaster is so awful! His behavior is so disgusting. He is now trying to hook up with ANOTHER of our mutual friends.
I'm not sure what to do! I want to kill him. I want to call him and scream at him. I'm losing it.
It sounds like I am in the friend zone. That is not where I want to be.
DBers please help me. Hugs, Lisa
Me: 34 H: 30 M: 4 years BD: 6/15/14 He moved out 6/30/14 OW1: EA then PA after BD Now he's dating multiple OWs I'm over it and moving on.
