I hear you girl . I completely understand your thought process but we have to be smart and I applaud you for being so strong and still loving your H . 22 years is nothing to throw away and he knows it but im sure hes very confused and is just trying to find himself through all this . Mean while make sure he knows that you are there and still love him and dont want to divorce then the ball is in his court . Ive finally learned that you cannot control his actions or his feelings and you have to let him sort it out for himself even though i know its very painful for you hun . Be stealth , keep an eye on things , you may see some weakness or problems arise in their fake relationship . What you have is real


Me 45 W 45
Son 16 Son 14
Married 23 together 27
W threatened sep several times
W still at home
A discovered Mar 17 2014
A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )