Sigh. Not calling back seems to have backfired, as he spent the past 2 days angry at me due to misinterpreting what I'd said. (He thought I was accusing him of not loving or caring about our D, when I was actually referring to myself.) We ended up having a brief talk last night. I asked him if he just wanted to be done, and he said he wanted to be done with the conflict, but not our R. However, he worries that he will not be able to end the conflict without ending our R, but it's not his preference. I thanked him for being open and apologized for lashing out. We had a good talk, I think. He said he would call me later today to discuss our plans for the weekend. I feel like I have more information that I need in order to proceed (i.e., I need to stop initiating conflict and back off when I am angry).
So, when you are mad at your WAS, what do you do? How do you get that anger out?
