Yes, I was just thinking more about the anger. Surprised that, after a year, it's STILL there, certainly not as venomous, but still there. And it's been there for at least 5 or 6 years. I remember seeing bits and pieces of it along the way, but always attributed it to his job, with which he's been increasingly unhappy for at least that long - constant complaining (and he was never a complainer before). Anyway, he's got to find some way to deal with it.
He SAYS he's going to counseling, but if he is, he must have JUST started, because I have not seen any paperwork from the insurance company (and I would, if he were going). The paper work lags a bit, so he probably just started it up. No idea where he's going. Not the same one I go to.
Well, he's going to be moving into an apartment very shortly, by himself, alone, at last. After living with sister and BIL for the past year, maybe he will actually like it? But either way, reality is about to set in for him. It will be interesting. Stay tuned!
Me 53, XH 57 M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids BD June '13 H moved out July '13 Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14 H filed for D Nov. '14 D March '15
