I don't love you anymore

[nova]

Haven't been on here for a while, been real busy with work.

Adinva, thanks for providing some direction with how to take my thoughts. I think you pretty much hit the nail on the head with how my wife felt with our conflict aversion. Me, I recover really quick from things that bother me, whether that is a good thing or bad.

Not too much going on with my sitch otherwise. Haven't seen W in two weeks. Sent her an email yesterday because she got mail at the house, and I wanted to borrow the tent to go camping in two weeks. She responded, saying I could borrow the tent and that she'd drop it off and pick up the mail when she drops off the cats for me to watch next weekend. I ended my original email with "Hope you are doing well," just to be nice. She said that she is doing well and that August is going to be "very busy but it should all be fun." I know from the rules to not believe much of what I see or read, but in the back of my mind, that stung a bit. But I'll just need to counter that with having fun myself.

Speaking of mail, I did get something interesting in the mail today. It was a letter addressed to both of us from Poland, which is where her grandmother lives (W mom is from Poland originally). I didn't open it because I felt that since it was addressed to both of us, I should wait until she either tells me I can open it or she is at the house. But given the timing, and the fact that it was addressed to both of us, I can only assume that it is an anniversary card from her grandmother. If that's the case, I guess she hasn't told her yet about her leaving. It should make for an interesting interaction when we open it.