Sounds like a very classic case of MLC. So sorry your are here but honestly these boards saved me.

As you already saw once he cant come back until he goes through this. Whatever this is.

You need to focus on yourself and your kids.

Treat yourself to nice things that you enjoy, whether its a new outfit, mani & pedi, massage, a sitter & dinner with a friend... you need to take care of yourself first.

Also get a hobby that puts you in contact with new people. Playing an instrument, or a sport, met up groups. Focus on you!!

Post often about anything bothering you.


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M 39
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D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13