"The third time's lucky. "

[cczamo]

Wow! TL, I've been away from these boards too long!

It seems like your relatively detached ex H has indeed freaked out in a MAJOR way! I also would have bet $$ that he had been drinking, but his tirade continued to another day? WOW!

You were blessed to have had the opportunity to sign HIS divorce papers quickly and benefit financially (long term, I believe you'll benefit, but I know it's a financial strain now) from getting the house. You were wise enough to do so. I suspect that you are correct about him being laid off or fired from his job. Yep I bet he started thinking (and drinking), and just got angrier by the moment as to how he brought all this onto himself. But as you and everyone has said, he sees it is your fault! ?

He probably still has no clue about your mom passing either.

I recommend that you not only tell your family about his potentially threatening emails and texts, but FORWARD them if you can so they're proof on another computer. It seems as if you're okay at least as of 7/29. I'll look for your other comments since then, if there are any. Otherwise, I wish you'd check in so we know you're okay.

Stay safe, Tina. (((hugs to you TL)))
Again, I'm blown away! Wow! (I know I keep writing that, but words escape me.) And we thought you'd had the model divorce! I'll keep you in my prayers.

You still are the role model of grace, dignity and integrity in all this process, though. Keep saying that mantra!


cczamo
...i'll post my update on my Funeral For a friend page