advice needed - please help

[stacey9]

Yes a toolbox would certainly be handy. I have managed to do a few jobs round the house and you're right Rick I did feel pleased with myself.

I think the main problem for me will be letting go and detachment. I know I have to do it for my own sanity but it's so difficult when I see him almost everyday when he's round to see the kids, who are really still peeved at what he's done.

My S has health issues and I am also angry that H has left all of the day to day worry to me while he is in the midst of his romance in his house which has no squabbling teenagers. But I couldn't be without them, they're great kids, and have been such a comfort to me these past 7 months.

Stacey x