Read sandi's 37 rules at top of new comers forum immediately
Get divorce remedy and divorce book TODAY. DON'T let her see you reading them
You have behavior and feelings. You won't be able to control your feelings at first but you MUST control your behavior. Follow those steps immediately. Then post often and read LOTS of threads until you can start to predict the advice the vets will give.
Take it day by day. If you can do this for a week or two it will get much easier. We are in your corner!!!


Me:38 XW:38
T:11 years M:8 years
Kids: S14, D11, D7
BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15