Hey Drew, do you mean basically that I can't control what she thinks or does?
I feel I'm a very different guy than the one she knew and although it seems that she has recognized that to some extent it's not nearly enough to consider working on a new relationship. Even if being with me would mean she sees our kids every day she would rather lose half their time than consider a new relationship, that says a lot.
Me-40,W-37 D7, D5, S3 Separated Oct 3/2013 T 11 YRS M 7 YRS