Thx for the input Mlp . But its still do I let her go or do I say no to her behavior . im thinking about inviting her out for a few drinks and food , but im sure she will decline . Then I will Do my own thing and if she goes to him then I will have to let it be and GAL . But it will be in my mind the whole time while GAL ing . I wont be able to drink . I cant trust i wont go to his house and make a scene . I' ll have more info tomorrow but im positive shes making plans to be with him overnight knowing the kids will be away


Me 45 W 45
Son 16 Son 14
Married 23 together 27
W threatened sep several times
W still at home
A discovered Mar 17 2014
A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )