All went well yesterday and not even at the last minute ! Would have liked 800.00 more, but NOT worth the money to go to court over. So it was a wash. I got a pretty good deal. I'm still on all of the insurances and through 2015 ! /////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////
So today I take charge...(finally) of my new life! Since my H. has obliterated " our " credit, I am going to open a savings secured credit card through my bank. It is right down the road from my house and I have an apt. YAY!
A start to moving forward and becoming my own credit savvy and RESPONSIBLE individual. I will purchase something small, ie, dog food or a movie ticket and then pay it off. Put the card in a drawer and LEAVE IT ALONE ! Eventually I will build credit and it will be golden!!
After that , I go get the SUV inspected and off to the gym. I had all of the responsibilities of raising, educating, health ( mental and physical ), coaching, leading, cooking, cleaning / maintaining/landscaping, driving, shopping, holiday's, etc. of the home and children 24/7 ! Now I'm about to grow in another area. I'm scared, excited, anxious, and willing to learn more about personal finance, bills, taxes, and investing.
It is a bit overwhelming and I feel like an amateur, because , well , I AM! I know this will be a bit painful, but I'm ready to rise to the challenge. I'm ready to push myself to grow, yet again! Part of who I am is the very sensual / emotional side. The other is the pragmatic / logical gal. I emote, and then I get down to business, in more areas than one, heh heh ! X }. Wish me luck all you experienced wonderful loving DB-ers,
BUST ON!
Formerly Workinprogress H :55 M :over 29 yrs. Together : 33 D : college D : adult BD and left : May 2013 Separated Experimenting/Replay
