Yes, it's basically the same contingency plan as I came up with a while ago. I'm mostly reaffirming it. And I guess I'm also implementing it A BIT by planning to start taking care of some house stuff in prep for *if* I land here permenately alone.
But I'm not planning to file for D at the moment. I spoke to IC this morning and agreed not to rush anything. Even if I discover the A has resumed I promised to take some time to calm down and get my ducks in a row. IC is away for a few weeks so that forces some restraint -- I promised to wait for her to come back before I do anything drastic, no matter what.
M: 42 H: 43 M: 8 years S7 and D4 H has D19 and S25 from previous M Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA 1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail 2nd separation: 5/1/14
