That was side benefit. For me it was just the need to be assertive rather than just sit back passively. Anything here on is gravy...vegetarian gravy. She seems nice and I felt this was honest but her priority is elsewhere...which is understandable. Hey, today I got attacked at work...again. A few weeks ago a guy was throwing stuff at me and today I got jumped! Helping people suucks sometimes lol. I need a quiet evening with my best friend. Looking forward to it.