Oh man, that's tough stuff, IH.

I think Pilot brings up some really valid points. It appears, IMO, she is using DBing as a means to alleviate her guilt and place it onto you. She obviously is not thinking clearly IMO either. She's very wishy-washy, going to relocate (geographical cure?) and appears to be running from her problems.

I honestly think that if you pursued her from the get-go, the results would of been the same except her excuse in that instance would be that you didn't respect her space and give her time to think.

Sorry you are going through this, IH. You are a good dude, keep working on yourself. Whether you R with WAW or find a new relationship, you are going to be ok.