Me crying/getting upset "all the time" turns him off. (Even though before we got married, he said he could deal w/me being emo. and that I should not apologize for who I am.)
I don't care about his feelings, so why should he care about mine?
He's not getting what he wants from this R so why should he give me what I want? (He wants emotionally stability and to get along-and like NEVER fight!)
He's reluctant to go out in public w/me for fear I will get upset. (This hasn't happened in over 6 months)
He doesn't want to put out the emo. energy b/c he just gets stepped on.
I sabotage our R.
He tried doing "everything" before and it didn't work, so why try now?
He wants to give me what I want (affirmation, affection, appreciation, attention), but doesn't feel that he can at this time, he wants to do it on his OWN time, and that I just have to deal with it.
He thinks that this R is too much work.
He doesn't want to spend time with me b/c we end up getting into these discussions frequently.
I am "ridiculous" when I get upset. (Meaning what I think)
I jump to the worst conclusions. (true)
I can't deal w/my own emo's so why would he want to share his?
He doesn't help plan b/c he is "easy-going and wants to do what I want to do." (BS-he says no a lot, and if that were true, we'd be having sex 4-8 times a week!
If we would get along for a longer period of time, he'll come around. (HOW long???)
He does think that he can "fall in love w/me" again.
He's not sure whether or not he wants to be m to me. He doesn't want to be miserable for the rest of his life...He's tired of this, he's exhausted...
