Hi Rick. Thanks for posting. I am reading db at the moment and I read through the 37 rules yesterday before he came round, I thought I was doing so well going out with friends and socialising but really I think I am just going through the motions. My head is somewhere else.

I have an appointment with L on Wednesday. H said he expects I will come off worse off but I don't know if he's trying to frighten me.

I'm sure there will be better days ahead.
Thanks x


Me - 44 Husband - 47
D20, S18
BD - Aug 2013
Moved out - Jan 2014
OW discovered Jan 2014